Is this site safe?
Our Secret is just as safe any other online community – that is to say, it is very safe as long as you follow good safety practices and use common sense. For a list of general safety tips, see https://www.oursecret.com/app/dating-safety
For various reasons, including member privacy and the wide spectrum of benefits being sought and offered by various members, we do not put members through a vetting process. As a general practice, we recommend assessing each new relationship with an appropriate level of optimism, tempered with good common sense, and building trust from there.